martes, 2 de agosto de 2016

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lunes, 11 de enero de 2016

SOLUCIONES PARA LOS MORETONES

9 soluciones naturales para tratar los moretones


Los moretones son hematomas que se generan como producto de un golpe, una caída o una lesión deportiva. Dependiendo de la gravedad del accidente, pueden alcanzar sólo el área ubicada debajo de la piel, el músculo o el hueso. Estos últimos son los más graves y dolorosos.

Al romperse pequeños vasos sanguíneos, algunos de los síntomas que pueden aparecer son dolor, inflamación y decoloración de la piel. La zona se pone colorada y sensible al tacto inmediatamente. Luego, se vuelve azulado, más tarde se ve amarillo-verdoso. Al final de este proceso, que puede durar días o meses, la piel vuelve a su color normal.

Lo primero que debe hacerse ante la aparición de un hematoma es colocar hielo por hasta 15 minutos cada hora, aunque nunca se lo debe aplicar directamente sobre la piel. También se aconseja hacer reposo y en caso de experimentar mucho dolor o sentir una presión extrema en la zona golpeada, se debe consultar a un médico inmediatamente.

Como siempre, existen soluciones naturales a las que se puede recurrir en caso de tener un moretón. Cualquiera de ellas ayudará a disminuir las molestias. Sin embargo, no debes utilizar ninguna de estas alternativas si, además del hematoma, tienes una herida abierta.


1. Hielo
Es lo que primero se debe aplicar luego de sufrir un golpe, ya que ayudará a reducir la inflamación por la contracción de los vasos sanguíneos. Esto, a su vez, disminuirá el dolor y evitará la aparición del hematoma. Sin embargo, se debe tener la precaución de nunca colocarlo directamente sobre la piel. En cambio, se lo debe envolver en un paño para evitar quemaduras.


2. Aloe vera (sábila)
Aplica un poco de aloe vera congelado sobre el moretón. Otra alternativa es colocar un poco de pulpa sobre la zona dañada y masajear suavemente. Esta última opción debe repetirse al menos tres veces por día. El alcíbar, uno de sus componentes, le confiere a esta planta propiedades antiinflamatorias y regeneradoras. Es por ello que es ideal para aplicar sobre los golpes.


3. Árnica
La árnica es un analgésico natural. Se trata de uno de los remedios más eficaces para tratar golpes, ya que reduce la inflamación y calma el dolor de los hematomas. Para que el tratamiento sea más efectivo, se aconseja aplicar una fina capa de ungüento varias veces al día.


4. Perejil
Machaca algunas hojas de perejil fresco y aplícalas durante cinco minutos sobre el golpe. Repite el tratamiento cuatro veces por día para obtener mejores resultados. Las propiedades anestésicas y anti inflamatorias de esta hierba acelararán el proceso de curación, de manera tal que el moretón desaparecerá con mayor rapidez.


5. Ajo
Por sus propiedades antioxidantes, aplicar un poco de jugo fresco de ajo sobre un moretón hará que los tejidos se regeneren más rápido. Como estimula la buena circulación de la sangre, también te ayudará a reducir los dolores ocasionados por el golpe si lo comes crudo.


6. Cebolla
Su contenido de alinasa -la misma sustancia que hace que los ojos lloren- estimula la circulación de la sangre. Así, la sangre no se acumula y no llega a formarse el hematoma. Es por ello que es bueno aplicar una rodaja de cebolla recién cortada sobre la zona golpeada tan pronto como sea posible. En caso de que éste ya haya aparecido, ayudará a que desaparezca más rápido.


7. Vinagre de manzana
Otra alternativa para estimular la circulación en la zona golpeada es aplicar una gasa o un paño empapado en vinagre de manzana sobre la lesión y masajear suavemente durante algunos minutos. Para mejorar los resultados, repite el mismo procedimiento tres veces por día.


8. Papa
La catalasa, una enzima presente en las papas, ayuda a mantener las células sanas. Aplica medio tubérculo sobre el golpe para reducir el dolor y la inflamación. Déjalo reposar por al menos cinco minutos y repite tres o cuatro veces al día.


9. Sal
Cuando se la aplica de manera tópica, la sal absorbe el líquido intracelular. Así, se reduce la inflamación y disminuye el dolor. Sólo debes colocar una capa de sal sobre el moretón y dejarla actuar durante algunos minutos.


Tomado de: http://www.labioguia.com/9-soluciones-naturales-para-tratar-los-moretones/
Publicado por Christopher ACH en 4/29/2015 11:28:00 a. m. 

domingo, 27 de diciembre de 2015

PALABRAS Y TERMINOS EN BDSM




Torture and BDSM Terms 101

A

Abrasion
To wear down the skin by using friction. Materials and toys such as sandpaper, steel wool, rough cloth, and bottlebrushes are often used. This increases sensitivity while giving both pleasure and pain.

Acomoclitic
Preference for hairless genitals

Acucullophilia
 Sexual attraction to men who are circumcised.

Adult Babies
 Age play wherein the submissive is the baby. This may include diapering, powdering, wearing a pacifier, sleeping in a crib, etc. Rarely taken to a 24/7 extreme.

Adult Toy Ches
A place where one keeps their sex toys. A sex toy box.

Age Play
 play that involves assuming the role of someone of a different age. Most commonly, one of the adults takes on the younger role, usually in the submissive capacity.

Algophilia
Sexual arousal from experiencing pain

Allopellia
Reaching orgasm from watching other people in sexual activities.

Alligator Clamp
A type of nipple clamp with tips that have teeth resembling an alligators mouth. Most clamps of this style come with removable rubber tips and have adjustment screws to limit how far they can close. Click Here

Altocalciphilia
 High heel fetish

Anal Dildo
A dildo that is intended to be used with the anus as the receptor. Click Here

Anal Intercourse
Sex using the anus as the receptor.

Androminetophilia
Sexual arousal from female cross dressers

Ankle Cuffs
Attachable cuffs, generally made of leather, that enable a Dom to immobilize his submissive’s legs

Ankle Restraint
Any device including ankle cuffs that immobilize a submissiveness legs. Click Here

Animal Training 
Training where the Dominant has his submissive play the part of an animal, such as horses and dogs. The most common is “puppy play”.

Asphyxiaphilia
see breath control

Autoclave
Professional sterilization device for piercing equipment.

Auto-erotic Asphyxiation
see breath control

Autogynephilia
Sexual arousal from cross-dressing


B

B&D, B/D, B/d  - Bondage and Discipline
Although they go together in this phrase, they are not inextricably linked. Bondage means restraining someone in a helpless position (Such as being tied up.) Discipline is training a person to behave in a certain way. They tend to go together because Dominants tend to do both to their submissive.

BDSM
A popular acronym for activities inclusive of (but not limited to) Bondage, Domination/Discipline Submission/Sadism & Masochism. Also called WIITWD, an acronym for “What It Is That We Do.” Both mean this type of alternative lifestyle. Sometimes the word “Bondage” has the same broad range meaning when used in a descriptive context.

BDSM Toy Box
A place where one keeps their BDSM gear or play equipment.

BJ
expression for blowjob (fellatio); ditto in the BDSM lifestyle.

Ball Gag 
A device with a rubber ball and straps, which secures the ball in the bottom’s mouth to stifle screams. Click Here

Ball Stretching
The practice of stretching the scrotal sack so that it hangs lower using weights or other devices to pull on it above the testicles. As the sack is pulled, the testicles are squeezed leading to discomfort and sometime pain. Click Here

Ball Torture
Causing pain to the male testicles, also included in CBT or cock and ball torture. Click Here

Ball Toys
Toys used for playing with the scrotum - such as weights, straps, etc. Click Here

Ball Weights
Weights used to stretch the scrotum. See Ball Stretching Click Here

BalletBoots
Extremely high heeled boots that require you to stand on the ends of your toes rather than the sole of your foot. Usually they have heels that are 8-9 inches and require considerable training and ability to walk in without assistance. Sometime also referred to as bondage boots. Click Here

Barbell 
A straight piece of metal used in piercing, as opposed to a ring.

Basoexia
Sexual arousal from kissing

Bastinado
Foot torture involving the soles of the feet.

Beating
General term for such BDSM activities such as flogging caning, spanking, strapping, etc.

Belonephilia
Sexual arousal from use of needles

Belt
A leather strap used for striking the buttocks.

Blend Modality
Depilation (hair removal) using both electrolysis and thermolysis.

Blindfold
By blocking out sight - a common technique in SM scene - the bottom feels more vulnerable and increases the release of endorphins, thus contributing to the excitement in the scene. Click Here

Blood sports
A group of techniques in which the submissive’s skin is broken and blood is allowed to escape. Such as cutting, using needles, etc. See also “Edgeplay.”

Blowjob
Fellatio, head, sucking cock.

Body Art
Artful body modification including: piercing, tattoos and brandings.

Body Modification
Making alterations to the appearance of the body. Includes, but is not limited to, tattoos, piercings, brandings, scarification.

Body Shaving
Removal of hair with a razor. Female and male submissives commonly shave their pubic hair clean.

Bondage
Making a submissive physically helpless and to a great extent immobilized. Techniques include rope ties, handcuffs, leather cuffs, stocks and mummification.

Bootlicking
Licking and cleaning of a Dominant’s boots by a submissive is a common show of submission. Can also be a fetish.

Bottom
A submissive.


Boy
Term for male submissive (also spelled “boi”)

Boy Toy
A male who is submissive to a dominant. Dominant can be either male or female.

Branding
Making a permanent or semi-permanent scar on the skin by burning it with a heated metal object. Usually used by a Master to “mark” his slave as his property.

Brat 
Term for a sub who tries to get the attention of a Dom/me by “acting up.”

Breast Bondage 
Tying up the female breasts with rope.

Breast Press
A device that squeezes the breasts.

Breath Control
another type of “edgeplay” whereby the submissive’s breath is stopped for a short period of time to increase pleasurable sensations. Also called asphyxiaphilia, autoerotic asphyxiation, breath games, breathplay and hypoxyphilia. Very Dangerous.

Bukake
Sexual scene where many men masturbate on and give a “semen bath” to a willing submissive

Bullwhip
A long, heavy leather whip usually longer than 4 feet.

Butterfly Board
A wood board where a male’s scrotum can be nailed or pinned onto.

Buttplug
a “sextoy” shaped to fit into and stay inside the rectum.

Buttplug Harness
Usually a leather harness that prevents a buttplug from being removed either intentional or accidentally from the rectum. Click Here


C

Cage
A bondage practice, wherein the submissive is kept inside a cage. They can be so small as to restrict motion or large enough for two or more people.

Candle
A source of hot wax, which is dripped onto the bottom’s body in BDSM play.

Caning
Using a rattan cane (although they are made of many other substances) on a Submissive. Usually more severe than a flogging. Click Here

Cat
An old school expression for an old school BDSM tool of discipline - the “cat o nine tails”. Click Here

Cat O Nine Tails
a whip that has exactly 9 strands. Some have a knot at the end for increased sensation or sting. Click Here

Catheter
Flexible tube used in medicine; in BDSM catheters designed for the bladder, often utilized in ‘control’ scenes.

Cathterophilia
 Sexual arousal from inserting a catheters

CBT - Cock and Ball Torture
Causing pain to the male genital area; usually in controlled, consensual BDSM scenes. Click Here

Chastity Belt
 A device used to keep the submissive chaste when the Dominant is away. Comes in both male and female models. Click Here   

Chains 
Multi-use metal links; used to restrain, restrict movement and/or tie up a submissive.

Chezolagnia
masturbating while defecating

Circumcision
The cutting away of some or the entire foreskin, in males. In the female, circumcision usually refers to the removal of the clitoral hood.

Clamp
Generic term for any BDSM toy (even if garnered at a hardware store) that can clamp some body part of a submissive.

Clingfilm
Generic term for plastic wrap which is used in mummification scenes.

Clip
Generic term for any BDSM toy (even if garnered at a hardware store) that can clip some body part of a submissive.

Clitoridectomy
Surgical removal of the clitoris.

Clitorilingus
Tonguing the clitoris. Also called “eating” which is easier to pronounce.

Clothespins
wooden or plastic clothespins, typically used to produce pain sensation on the skin. Usually on nipples and genital areas.

Clover Nipple Clamps
Type of adjustable nipple clamps that tightens as it is pulled. Also known as Japanese Clover Nipple Clamps. Click Here

Coca-Cola Submissive
A submissive who only obeys the easy stuff or only when he/she feels like it.

Cock Cage
a CBT device that encase a penis shaft inside it. Can be either a solid or web design. Click Here

Cock Cuff
a chastity device that consists of a tube welded to a handcuff, usually both made of stainless stelel. The penis is slide into the tube and the handcuff closes behind the ball sack making removal all but impossible without unlocking the handcuff. A very effective chastity device. Click Here

Cock Ring
Rubber or metal ring that slips round base of cock and balls; supposed to increase duration of erection but also has D/s aspects to it.  

Cock Strap
Leather or neoprene strap that wraps around the base of cock and balls to help improve erection.

Cock Sucking
see “fellatio” if you don’t already know.

Cock Torture
Cock and ball torture without the ball torture. Giving pain only to the penis shaft.

Color Codes
such as the hanky code of sexual preference.

Collar and Leash
Worn by the bottom during this type of BDSM play. The Dominant holds the leash and the bottom must follow and obey. Click Here   and Click Here

Condom
Latex “rubber” that goes over the penis to prevent semen from entering a vagina. Also known as “rain coat” and “gym cap.”

Consent
To give approval. The BDSM code of “safe, sane and consensual” or “SSC” is the cornerstone of BDSM play. With consent being the most important.

Contract
A written agreement between D/s partners outlining the extent of their relationship. These contracts cannot be legally enforced, but they are often used to define the relationship. See also Slave Contracts.

Contro
The Dominant should have control in one form or another over his submissive in any D/s relationship.

Coprolagnia
Sexual excitement derived from eating feces

Coprolalia 
Sexual excitement from dirty words

Coprophilia 
Gaining sexual pleasure from scat play.

Corporal Punishment
 Retributive punishment using repetitive spankings and question and reply to change a bottom’s behavior.

Corset
Very popular clothing item that cinches and narrows the waist and gives the female an “hourglass” figure. Click Here

Crop
A type of whip used in horseback riding, quite popular in BDSM scenes. It stings and can mark a butt severely, but is easy to master and quite reasonable in price. Click Here

Cross
see St. Andrew’s Cross.

Cross Dressing
Dressing in clothing worn by the opposite sex. Does not indicate sexually preference in any way.

Crucifixion
BDSM play wherein a submissive is tied to a cross.

Cuff 
A metal or leather bondage device that locks round a limb and can be used to immobilize the sub’s limbs. Click Here

Cunnilingus
Licking and sucking the cunt.

Cunt Torture
Stimulation or pain inflicted on the female genitals. Click Here

Cupping
The placing of suction devices on the skin to increase blood flow. Typically these are used on the nipples and the genitalia. Increasing the blood flow increase sensation as well.

Cutting
Cutting the submissive’s skin with a sterile knife. These can be either temporary or permanent. Made permanent by putting sterile foreign substances into them before they heal. Not for beginners.


D

DM
Acronym for Dungeon Monitor. In a BDSM play party, they watch the scenes to make sure house rules are followed and the play is safe.

DP
Double penetration.

D/s
Popular abbreviation for Dominance and submission. A relationship between a Top and bottom where one is Dominant and the other submissive. Can be for a scene or can be a long-term relationship or anything in between. (Also called Dom-sub, DS, D/S, D&S.)

Dacryphilia
 Sexual arousal from seeing tears in the eyes of one’s partner. Something sadists sometimes find enjoyable or arousing.

Daddy 
A role taken on by some dominants; especially common in age play.

Depilation
Removal of hair. Many Dominants require their submissive to shave certain areas, their whole body or just their pubic hair.

Dildo
A manufactured penis-shaped object.

Discipline
Whipping, spanking, verbal orders, etc for the purpose of training a submissive.

Dittle Sound
 A straight urethral sound.

Dog-Training
Role-play games involving treating the bottom as a dog. Similar to Pony Training where the bottom is treated like a pony.

Dom
Short for Dominant.

Dominant
A Top. who controls a bottom, submissive, or slave.

Domination
Taking the Dominant role - controlling the bottom’s behavior, it can be role-play or in a D/s relationship.

Dominatrix
A Domme; it implies being a professional.

Domme
A female Dominant. Can also be used interchangeably with Mistress

Double Penetration
Simultaneous penetration of the ass and pussy.

Douche, Douching
Injecting of a liquid, usually water, into the asshole or pussy, usually for hygiene purposes prior to sex or ass play.

Duct Tape
Also known as gaffer’s tape; used in many BDSM scenes (such as taping the submissive’s mouth shut).

Dungeon
Dramatic term for a BDSM or Bondage playroom.


E

EMS Unit
 see Tens Unit

Ecdyosis
Sexual arousal from stripping in front of an audience

Ecdysiast
A stripper

Edgeplay
Technically, this refers to knife play. But it has come to mean anything “on the edge.” Or considered “Extreme” It can even include fisting, asphyxia, play piercings, needle play, etc. One person’s edge can be another’s norm so there are no hard and fast rules defining what “edgeplay” is.

Edgeplayer 
A person who partakes in edgeplay.

Electrical Play
Using electricity for stimulation. Professionally made electrical units are to be used - like the “tens” unit and the “violet wand.” Not for beginners.

Electrolysis
 Permanent electric hair removal.

Electrotorture
Another, more dramatic, term for electrical play.

Emasculation
Permanent removal of the male sex organs. Sometimes simulated through the use of a chastity device or through a dominants restrictions forbidding typical male behavior such a urinating while standing.

Endorphin
A chemical produced in the body that seems to be involved in regulating the perception of pain. Endorphins give a “rush” similar to adrenaline (which is released simultaneously) and it is speculated that their release is the cause of the phenomenon known as “subspace.”

Enema
A thorough anal douche using a bag and tube.

Enema Play
Using the enema as a BDSM device in play.

Enforced Chastity
Chastity play where the Dom controls a sub’s sexual frequency and ability to experience sexual pleasure, usually with a chastity belt or other chastity device.

Extreme Restraints
A Bondage device that is very strict or terribly confining, usually not something used on beginners.


F

Face Fucking
another term for a blowjob. .

Fainting 
A temporary loss of consciousness. Caused by lack of oxygen to the brain, can happen during extreme BDSM play - such as breath control, long pain sessions, etc. Can be dangerous (brain damage) when caused by breath control play.

Felching
Imbibing semen out of the vagina or anus

Fellatio
Giving head, a blow-job (BJ), going down on someone, being face fucked: the act of sucking or licking a penis, or having a penis inserted in the mouth.

Fellatrix
Someone whose specialty is Fellatio.

Femdom
A female dominant

Female Domination 
Being controlled or lead by a female.

Fetish, Fetishism
An unusual obsession with something. Like a leather fetish, a latex fetish or a shoe fetish. Fetishes are only limited by the human imagination.

Fetish Attire
Clothes that reflect the wearer’s particular fetish, such as leather, latex, rubber or high heels.

Financial Domination
Controlling another’s financial matters or money.

Fire Play
The use of fire in sexual play.

Fisting
also called fist fucking and FF. Attempting to place the whole hand into the rectum or vagina. Must be done with great care and sterility. Can provide exceptional orgasms.

Flagellation
BDSM-related whipping, beating and spanking for erotic stimulation.

Flogger 
a multi-tailed leather implement.

Flogging 
using a “flogger” on a submissive.

Foley Catheter
Type of catheter that can be inflated with sterile water.

Foot Worship
A foot fetish where the submissive worships the Dominants feet, usually in high heel shoes or boots.

Freeplay
BDSM play where there is no Domination or submission.

Frenum
Piercing the surface of the penis shaft.

Forced Lactation
Continual stimulation and sucking of the female nipple can sometimes produce milk. Also known as forced breast milking


G

Gaffer’s Tape
see Duct Tape.

Galateism 
Sexual attraction to statues

Gauge
System of grading the thickness. The lower the number, the thicker the wire or material.

Genitorture
Pain play involving the genitals. (See Ball Torture, Cock and Ball Torture, Cunt Torture).

Gerontophilla
Preference for sex with the elderly

Go Down On
Still another of the endless terms for fellatio.

Golden Showers
Urination play. Also called (duh) “piss play.” And GS.

Gym Cap
Slang for condom.

Gynemimetophilia
Person sexually aroused by a female impersonator


H

Hafada 
Piercing through the upper part of the scrotum.

Handcuffs
Commonly used BDSM device to restrain the wrists.

Hanky Code
Old guard leather community’s color code of sexual preference.

Harness
Elaborate bondage device made with leather straps worn on the body

Harpaxophilia
Arousal from being robbed

Hedralingus
Licking someone’s anus (also called rimming.)

Henna
A brown dye made from the leaves of the henna plant. Used in temporary tattoos.

High Heels
 Popular objects of foot fetishists, along with boots.

Hobble Skirt
Very narrow skirt that restricts the wearer’s ability to take anything other than tiny steps.

Homilophilia
Sexual arousal from hearing sermons

Hood
A head covering, usually made of leather, that the Dominant wears to increase the “fear factor” in a BDSM scene or a submissive is made to wear to provide some degree of sensory deprivation.

Horse
In bondage, it is a modification of a sawhorse over which a submissive can be tied. Sometimes called a spanking bench.

Hypophilia
Breath play wherein sexual pleasure is derived from limiting the intake of oxygen. Usually accomplished by temporary choking. Very Dangerous.


I


Iantronudia
Sexual arousal from exposing oneself to a medical doctor

Iconolagny
Sexual arousal from statues of nude people

Immobilization
 Extreme form of bondage where no body parts can move, one example is mummification. Not for beginners.

Infantilism 
Role-play as a young child for sex play

Infibulation
closing off, obstructing or modifying, either permanently or temporarily, the male or female genitalia so as to alter or prevent the conduct of sexual intercourse.


J
John
A person who patronizes prostitutes.

Japanese Clover Nipple Clamps
Type of adjustable nipple clamps that tightens as it is pulled. General preferred because they won’t easily slip off.

K

Kleptolagnia
Sexual arousal from stealing


Klismaphilia
Sexual arousal from giving or getting enemas

Knife Play
A specific form of “edgeplay” where the Dominant uses a knife to either cut or tease the submissive.

Knot
The easiest way to fasten rope in bondage.

Knismolagnia
Sexual arousal from tickling

Kolpeuryntomania
Sexual arousal from forced dilation of the vagina


L
Lactaphilia
Sexual arousal from lactating breasts

Lash
A strike from a whip, paddle, crop or flogger.

Latex Play
Play which uses paint on latex.

Leather
One of the most popular of fetish materials; many get excited by the look and/or feel of leather clothing, boots, etc.

Legcuffs
large handcuffs intended to be used to immobilize or restrict movement of the ankles

Leg Irons
Steel ankle cuffs. Patterned after British prisoner restraints. “Put him in irons!”

Limit
The point beyond which a submissive does not allow the Dominant to go. It can be a “soft limit” which can change over time, or a “hard limit” which is more or less written in stone. For example, a submissive might say, “fisting is my hard limit.” Or soft!

Lorum
Piercing through the skin on the underside of the penis.

Lunge Whip
see Quirt.


M

Ma'am
Term of respect for a female Dominant.

M/s
Master/slave. (Also, less popularly, MS, M&S or M-s)

Macrogenitalism
 Sexual arousal from outsized genitals

Maid
Popular role-play where the submissive dresses up - and acts like - a maid.

Maieusiophilia
Sexual arousal from pregnant women

Malacca
A thick cane.

Maledom, male dom
A male Dominant.

Male Domination
BDSM play where a male is the one in control or who controls the submissive.

Mammagymnophilia 
Sexual arousal from female breasts

Manacle
Metal restraints.

Martinet
Small flogger.

Masochist
One who gets pleasure from pain.

Master
Dominant, controlling partner in a D/s relationship, where the submissive partner is known as the slave.

Medical Scene 
BDSM scene involving medical scenarios.

Menophilist
Sexual arousal from women on their period

Mentor 
A teacher or advisor who often shows a “newbie” around the world of BDSM and D/s. Mistress - Female analogue of Master.

Merinthophilia
Sexual arousal from bondage

Mistress
Female counterpart for Master, a female dominant.

Mommy 
Analogue of Daddy in BDSM play. Sometimes submissives call their Mistress “Mommy.”

Mousetraps
Used as a BDSM device for nipple torture. A severe and pain cheap nipple clamp.

Mummification
A unique kind of bondage scene in which the whole body is wrapped tightly in a film - typically plastic wrap. (You never thought it would be used for that, did you?). Not for beginners.


N
Nailing
BDSM play where the scrotum or breasts are nailed to a board.

Nasogastric tube
Used in control scenes such as forced feeding.

Nasolingus
Sexual arousal from nose sucking

Necrochlesis
Sex with a corpse

Necrophilia
Sexual gratification from sex with the dead

Needle Play
another “edgeplay” where sterilized needles are inserted through the top layer of the skin (the epidermis). Most popularly it is done underneath and around the female nipple and the breast. Not for beginners.

Negotiation
discussing hard and soft limits and related items of BDSM taste before any play or relationship begins. It helps in defining Safe, Sane and Consensual between the dominant and submissive.

Newbie
Someone new to something such the BDSM play or lifestyle.

Nipple Clamps
Devices that clamp onto the nipples. Weights can be attached to stretch the nipples. Nipple Clamps often provide increased stimulation which can involve pain and pleasure. See Also, Japanese Clover Nipple Clamps, Alligator Nipple Clamps, Tweezer Nipple Clamps

Nipple Rings
Jewelry that looks like small hoop earrings that are inserted through pierced nipples. Another popular jewelry style for pierced nipples is the barbell. There also non-permanent nipple rings which stay attached by pinching the nipple.

Nipple Torture
To cause pain to the nipples. Typically by using nipple clamps, needles, mousetraps, pulling and twisting, etc.

Nipple Shield
Decorative nipple jewelry the encircles or even covers the nipple.

Nipple Weights
Usually weights suspended from either nipple clamps or from nipple piercings.

Novice
see Newbie.


O

Oculolictus
Eyeball-licking

Odaxelangnia
Sexual arousal from biting

Odontophilia
 A tooth fetish

Ophidiophilia
Sexual arousal from snakes

Oral Sex
Sex involving contact between mouth and any other sexual organ.

Orogastric Tube
A tube from mouth to stomach. Used in force feeding scenes. Not for beginners.

Osphresiolagnia
Sexual arousal from foul smells

OTK
“Over the Knee” spanking were the subject is placed over the lap of the person administering the spanking.

 

P

PA
see Prince Albert.

PE
see Power Exchange.

Paddle
A flat instrument used for spanking purposes; usually made of wood or some other rigid material.

Padlock
Common type of lock used in BDSM play. Use to secure bondage restraints, securely fasten chain links together, as labia weights, etc.

Pain
Pain causes the release of endorphins that is thought causes the submissive to go into subspace.

Pain Games
BDSM play involving pain.

Pain Slut
Popular expression for a submissive who loves pain. Also a masochist

Pain Threshold
The point at which stimulation becomes pain.

Pansexuality
BDSM activities encompassing all sexualities, heterosexual, homosexual, trangender, 

Parachute Ball Stretcher
A toy resembling a parachute from which weights can be suspended in ball torture scenes.

Phallophilia
Fetish for large penises. Something most women have.

Permanent Piercing
Piercing the body in order to insert jewelry that is intended to be worn on at least a semi-permanent basis.

Piss Play
see Water Sports, Golden Showers.

Play Piercing
Piercing the body temporarily. All piercings are removed at the end of the session.

Podophilia
See Foot Fetish

Pony Play
Role-play scene where the submissive takes on the role of a pony. Can be very elaborate.

Power Exchange
The dynamic whereby the Dominant is consensually given power over the submissive, whether for just the scene or for a relationship. Sometimes called Total Power Exchange or TPE.

Press Style Nipple Clamps
These are nipple clamps that press the nipple between two pieces of metal usually forced together by a thumb screw. The thumb screw allows them to be squeezed tight or jut enough to stay in place.

Prince Albert
Also known as a PA. A male piercing between the urethra and the underside of the penis. Not named after the Prince of Monaco.

Puppy Play
Perhaps the most popular of animal RPGs. Here, the submissive actually mimics a puppy. Sometimes it can evolve into a lifestyle where the “puppy” even sleeps in a cage.

Pushy Bottom
Old school phrase for a very demanding bottom. Associated with Topping from the bottom.

Pussy Torture
The use of BDSM devices - such as clamps - on the female gential area to produce pain.

Pygmalianism
Sex with statues or inanimate objects

Pygophilemania
Sexual arousal from kissing butt cheeks


Q
Quirt
A type of buggy whip used for whipping the submissive. Easier and safer to use than a bullwhip.


R
RPG
Abbreviation for Role Play Games.

Rack
Bondage furniture patterned after the infamous torture device of the Inquisition. The bottom is put on it and “stretched” - but not in the extreme fatal way.

Real Life or Real Time
r/l or r/t - as opposed to virtual or cyber life.

Red
 Most common safe word meaning stop.

Restraint
Limiting the bottom’s movement with the use of various bondage gear, equipment or devices.

Restriction
Limiting the bottom’s behavior or physical movement.

Riding Crop
see Crop.

Rimming
Tongue contact with the rectum or asshole.

Ring Gag
A device that keeps the submissive’s mouth wide open. Also called a “piss gag”

Role Play Games
Taking fantasy roles in BDSM scenes. For example, nurse or doctor/patient, etc.

Rope
The most common of bondage equipment.

Rubber
After leather, the most popular fetish material.


S

SAM
Smart Assed Masochist. A pseudo submissive who attempts to control everything the dominant does.

S&M
Sadism and masochism. One who enjoy administering pain and one who enjoys receiving pain.

S/m
Modern term for S & M. Also SM, S/M, SMer

Sadist
An individual who enjoys causing pain. The term dates back to the Marquis de Sade.

Sadomasochism
 The perversion of taking pleasure, especially sexual gratification from simultaneous sadism and masochism.

Safe, Sane and Consensual
A popular slogan in the BDSM world meaning that play should always be safe, with good judgment exercised. And, most importantly, it MUST be consensual.

Safe Word
A word or phrase a submissive can use to stop his or her scene. It is absolute. If a Dominant disregards a submissive’s safe word, that Dominant is considered “unsafe.” The most common safe word is “RED!” Some also use a caution word such as “Yellow” to signify that the dominant is approaching a limit.

Saint Andrew’s Cross
A popular piece of BDSM furniture where a submissive can be conveniently tied or cuffed to it and rendered immobile. It looks like a big cross!

Safe Sex
Using condoms and taking all necessary health precautions during sex.

Saran Wrap
Brand of cling film used in mummification scenes.

Scat
Fecal play. An abbreviation for “scatological.”

Scene
A BDSM session. Can be used to refers to “public scene” at a party where the participants let others watch or a “private scene” where just the dominant and submissive are present.

Schoolgirl Role-play
Popular RPG wherein the submissive is the “bad school girl” and the Dominant is the “teacher.”

Self-Bondage
The practice of performing bondage on oneself by oneself.

Shackle
Metal or leather bondage restraint device consisting of round cuffs joined by a chain or bar.

Shaving
It is very common in BDSM for submissives to shave their pubic hair.

Shoe Fetish
One who enjoys shoes. Popular fetish, even in the vanilla world.

Slapper
Rigged paddle modified to make a loud sound.  

Slave
A term used interchangeably with “submissive.” Some consider a slave a more extreme version of a submissive.

Slave Contract
A signed consensual contract, wherein a submissive or slave cedes to the Dom or Master a specified set of powers over her for a set period of time. Although legally unenforceable, it is still a powerful document between dominant and slave

Sound
Medical device to be inserted into the urethra in medical play. Also called “urethral sounds.”

Spanking
To slap on the buttocks with the open hand, or a short flat object such as a paddle or a hairbrush. Used as both punishment and/or in role-play context in BDSM scenes.

Spanking Bench
BDSM furniture, a variation on the saw horse, onto which a submissive is attached (by cuffs, rope, etc.) for the Dominant to spank and play with.

Speculum
Medical device intended for opening and examining the rectum or vagina; used mostly in “doctor/medical scene” play.

Spencer Paddle
Type of wooden paddle with holes drilled though it.

Spreader Bar
A long metal rod that holds the submissive legs, thighs or even wrists wide apart.

Stigmatophilia
Sexual attraction to those with body modifications or tattoos

Stocks
A piece of bondage furniture patterned after the Puritan model. The head and hands go through holes while the submissive is standing.

Straitjacket, Straightjacket
Confining device used mostly in psychiatric wards to restrain the insane. It is intended to prevent the movement of the arms and is usually impossible to remove without assistance.

Strangling
see Breath Control.

Strapon
A belt or harness that has a dildo attached. IT allows the wearer the ability to fuck another either in the vagina or anus.

Strapping
Another term for a “beating”.

Sub
see Submissive.

Subby
see Submissive.

Subbie
see Submissive.

Submission
The act of submitting to the will and desire of another, usually within negotiated limits.

Submissive
An individual who consents to give up power to a Dominant. This can be for any duration - for an hour or a lifetime.

Subspace
A state of mind and body - often like a trance - caused by endorphins emitted during a BDSM scene.

Surface Burn
A temporary brand, usually produced with copper wire heated less hot than steel used in making a permanent brand.

Surface Piercing
Temporary piercing through the skin’s surface.

Suspension
suspending a submissive with ropes, webbing or chain so that no part of the body touches the floor. Not recommended for beginners.

Switch
A person who can both Top and bottom depending on the situation and his partner. Many switches have switches as partners.


T

24/7
A 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. At all times.

TENS Unit
Acronym for Transcutaneous Electrical Neural Stimulation unit. Used for sexual stimulation is electrical play scenes. See also Violet Wand.

TPE
Total Power Exchange; term reserved for established 24/7 Master/slave relationships.

TT
Tit torture.

Temporary Piercing
Piercing the body temporarily. All piercings are removed at the end of the session. Same as play piercing.

Thermolysis
A form of electrical hair removal.

Thong Whip
A whip made of thing strands of either leather or rubber. When swing lightly it will not cause much pain, when swung hard it can cause considerable pain.

Timophilia
Sexual arousal from wealth, yet another thing most females have even if the wont admit to it.

Top
A Dominant, the person who is in charge or has control.

Topping from the bottom
This is where a submissive dictates the action in a scene, something that is highly frowned upon. Can also be used in real time context. When a submissive becomes too demanding.


Torture
term meaning to cause pain.

Toy, BDSM
Any piece of equipment used in a BDSM scene.

Tragus
Piercing through the ridge on the face side of the ear hole.

Transgender
Not quite male, not quite female.

Transgenderism
incorporating manners, behaviors, appearance, etc of the opposite sex while still maintaining some of the above of your biological sex.

Tweezer Nipple Clamps
A style of nipple clamp that is like a pair of tweezers with a ring around the outside. As you push the ring toward the pincher ends, it causes the clamp to tighten or bite harder.


U
Urethral Play
Play involving the urethra, the tube that runs between the bladder and the outside of the body. Not for beginners.

Urethral Sound
Medical device to be inserted into the urethra in medical play.

Urolagnia
Sexual excitement from urine or the act of urination


V

Vacuum Pumping
Using the suction of a vacuum to increase the size of body parts.

Vampirism
Sexual arousal caused by drinking blood

Vanilla
People not in the BDSM or Fetish lifestyle. Most people, whether admitted or not have some sort of fetish.

Violet Wand
An electric device usually in form of a glass cylinder, which uses the effect of high frequency electric charges to apply intense stimulation.

Virtual life or Virtual Time
v/l or v/t - often used to describe “online life” as opposed to r/l (real life).


W
WS
see Water Sports.

Water Sports
The sexual enjoyment of urine play. Also called Golden Showers (or GS).

Wattenburg Wheel
A medical pinwheel that is commonly used in BDSM play to stimulate or cause a feeling sensation.

Wax Play
Play in which the Dominant brings hot wax on the submissive’s skin.

Web
A bondage device, popular in many dungeons, created with ropes that are spun like a spider’s web.

Weights
Used to stretch body parts such as nipples and labia; usually attached to clamps or piercings.

Whip
Usually made of leather with a medium size handle and long braided leather strings.

Whipping Post
 In olden times, a post to which offenders were fastened for whippings. Reproductions are sometimes used in BDSM dungeons.


Z
Zelophilia
Sexual arousal from jealousy